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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 25.06.2025 07:29

How does one succeed in life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Ask yourself:

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why do unattractive men assume that a pretty woman like me want them?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

What I need from you?

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

That's it for today.

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Procrastinates a lot.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Making more friends is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Why are most girls not open to the idea of anal sex?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why are Christians quick to say that there are a lot the gay Christians that exist NOW and use that to pretend that Christianity is just loving to gays when the last 40 years of my life they been horrible?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Does not procrastinate.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

I see ugly guys dating gorgeous, "hot" women all the time. I, too, am not very attractive but I'm not doing well with the ladies. What's their secret?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.